Would you rather be beautiful or happy? I’m not complaining. I really want to hear real answers. My experience is this… I had a pretty bad childhood. I was a really bad teenager and got in alot of trouble. And the first half of my 20’s has been devoted to my husband and children. When I turned 25, I had a total crisis. I am living someone else’s dream ( my nightmare ) and I am to blame. BUT… I am a beautiful person. (not being conceeded) I was an average awkward child. But I have just grown in beauty. I have had more people tell me that I look better after 2 kids than I did in high school. I am a very spiritual person and try to be the best person I can be. I think that by loving myself and accepting my beauty, not pointing out my wrongs, makes me even better as a person. Once I learned to love myself, I could give more love. Any thoughts? Happiness or Beauty?