Okay, I’d just like other people’s opinion on this. I have this ex I was with for over two years who is currently homeless. I let him sleep on my couch cause it’s that or sleeping on the streets. Now, he cheated on me and I told him it was over and it has been over six months since I’ve gotten laid. I don’t care about anything else, I have freaking needs and this bastard keeps laying guilt trips on me cause I feel like finding someone else and getting laid, not in order, one is not mutally exclusive of the other. I have no interest in getting back together with him, but since I do have a free place I would feel bad about kicking him out because I do think karma counts towards things and he has no place else to go. So, what can I do about this jerk that wants to lecture me about our past relationship every time I try to go out without him and continously tells me he’s trying to get into the army to make everything magically betther with us (3 months plus I really don’t think the U.S. army is being too selective at this time) so I can get laid and forget about this past six month long dry spell. I have made it very clear that we are NOT in a relationship and I don’t want to be friends with benefits, and I otherwise think that he’s probably ridden with STDs and I only let him sleep on my couch cause I can’t find it in my heart to be so cruel as to let him lie homeless on the streets?