Please read this question with an open- mind.
I know this may seem far fetched, but about a year ago my fiance’ and myself moved into a house.
Not long after we moved in, I started to develop severe depression. I can only explain it as an intense negative emotion, but mostly when I am at home. A feeling of complete sadness overwhelms me almost as soon as I walk in the door.
About a year ago, one of my neighbors told us that the lady that used to live here shot herself and died in my living room. Could this be the cause of this negative energy in my house? My fiance’ said that he gets a negative feeling when he is home too.
I have lived with my fiance’ before with no problems, so I’m pretty sure it’s not because I live with him that I feel this way at home. Anyway, any advice would be great, because I am often home alone due to my fiance’s work schedule, and it’s getting to the point where I hate to be home.
Thanks and please no sarcastic comments, please keep an open -mind.
OK, so apparently, the whole no sarcastic thing didn’t set in here. Although I must say that some of your comments were amusing. Yea I probably do suffer from depression, but I still think my house is haunted and that doesn’t help me at all. I do also believe that if I didn’t know what happened in my house, I would be better off. And for all the helpful advice, thanks.
For everyone else, well I guess I’m glad I’m here to entertain your bored selves.
Also to answer some of your questions.I do live by an Exxon Mobile, and train tracks. I also don’t have a basement, and I have heard that sometimes if you don’t have a basement raydon( don’t know the correct spelling) can seep up from the ground.
If that means anything. My house is pretty old and we may have mold and old paint as well.
And basement Cat, I also forgot to add that my electrical system is very outdated. So if you can give me any more info on what you were saying, it would be very helpful, thanks. Because that does make more sense then having a spirit in my house 🙂
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I can not explain it, but if you’re not an negative person, you shall feel the negative energy within you
Who you gonna call?
Actually, I have read some interesting studies about low frequency vibrations inducing emotional changes. Are you by a factory or large road that may be giving off noise too low for you to hear it?
Spirits have nothing to do with how you feel about yourself. If you suffer from depression, then you need to figure out the reason and see a doctor, not an exorcist.
You can feel it. Sometimes you can see it.
Sometimes it is in a piece of furniture that may have been used by someone dealing with the occult or witchcraft. I know people who have moved out of houses where strange things occurred and foot prints were evident on their ceiling after hearing the noises. If you pray to God in Jesus name and this does not put you at peace then I wouldn’t stay there.
Know that God will protect you if you believe that he will.
Well, it’s hard to take you seriously when you admit that you were told about the suicide about the same time as you moved into the place. If you didn’t know about the suicide and still felt this way, then we would have something to work with. This is obviously your minds working overtime over the suicide. If you are so susceptible to such things, then maybe you shouldn’t have bought the house. If you can’t get over your “negative feelings”, then maybe you should sell the house and move on. Better yet, get some counselling because most houses that aren’t brand new have had deaths in them.
in order to be as objective as possible, psychologists and lawyers have suggested the use of leading questions be curtailed.
“A leading question is a question which subtly prompts the respondent to answer in a particular way. Leading questions are generally undesirable as they result in false or slanted information.”
So be careful when you talk to others about stuff like that. You just asking could lead them to make a false statement…and then you wouldn’t know For Sure.
(examples of leading questions)
I can categorically say that your house does not contain negative energy or a spirit, any more than it contains moon dust or pixies.
There are no such things as negative energy or spirits – these are things that our primitive ancestors made up to explain things that they did not understand.
I’m sorry that you’re going through a bad time at the moment, but it’s called “life” – shit happens and you have to deal with it (and, no, I’m not being unsympathetic here – I too suffered from depression a few years ago. I got over mine with the help of my wife, my friends and my doctor.)
it is possible that the previous occupant is in your house, and is sharing her feelings with you
however, you need to rule out non-spirit causes of what you’re feeling before you jump to that conclusion.
check for fumes (from paint or cleaning products). check for mold, and check for electronic devices, wiring, and outlets that give off high amounts of energy. all of those can make you feel what you described.
ok. everything gives off an e.m. (electro-magnetic) field. if the e.m. field is too high it reeks all kinds of havok.
you say your wiring is outdated? that might be part of the problem. the protective casing around the wires might be stripped (worn off), or just so old it doesn’t work anymore.
there are two things you could do. hire an electrician to check it out, or check yourself. they sell e.m. detectors at hardware stores, and probably electronics stores (like radio shack). follow the instructions and see how high the e.m. field is in your home.
The electro-magnetic expanses of the departed may give rise to unanticipated changes, quantity produced by an energy/spirit in whom possesses poor-qualities that will ultimately take effect on the possessors of the home.
The idiosyncrasy of this old woman is not beneficial for you or your fiance’.
Truthfully, your domain is possessed. Never let any one tell you what is it you know to be occurring. All comments may seem to be plausible. But are inferior ones.
If this entity is in fact the poor old woman who killed her self in your place of residence, this verily contradicts about what the Bible mentions about [Hell]. ***LEER*
On any occasion have you heard the saying misery loves company.
The old woman wants you to violently end your life, too.
Do not become vulnerable to this negative energy/spirit or possession may take place. This may include long-periods of naps, pharmaceutical effects, intoxication, etc. If you ever experienced suicidal thoughts or attempts, you should contact one who specializes within your circumstances. Or move.
Cleansing the house with burnt incense may help.
These fragrant odors are supposed to compel away negative energies or spirits, like repel against rodents.
I was wondering the exact same thing. We moved into my house when it was about 2 Years old in ’08, and we have 10 acres out in the sticks with a 2 acre man made pond, if that matters. Anyway, about 3 months ago when everyone was asleep I heard someone/something knocking on the door/house really really loud three times. I was almost asleep and it was enough for me to wake up my Husband of 20 Years and after he saw my concern he went around the house with a gun/flashlight, and nothing/noone…?? So, I purchased some white sage sticks, and after reading this and what I’m going through which is so simular I’m giving my house a thorough cleansing with my rosery beads and saying the Lords Prayer. Please contact me if you would like. Good luck, and God Bless!! Robin/Georgia
i feel the same way when I’m home. I’ve owned my home for several years. The last year and a half, i started feeling ill, i hated being home. i left my job, i just couldnt do anything anymore. ,y family life is great, so im not depressed. i went to vegas for a week with family and felt great but once i got home i felt like i hated my home and angry right away. i do beleive in negative energy. i truly beleive that people that surround you and are envious of your life and comment about your life and wish you no success has a lot to do with it. I met a lady once who said ” jealousy is worst than any spell” she also said people who wish u harm can cause for you to have negative energy.
I know what you are feeling that is how I have been feeling about the house I live now and I had found out that every family that lived there before had done bad things so maybe it has been that way since the house was built. I would like to know what you have done about it please contact me on my email. It is [email protected]
For starters have your electrical updated, along with getting rid of the old paint and mold. They all have a bad effect on health and can give you feelings of being “watched” and uneasy etc.. If you feel frightened and think there is an entity in your home, talk to it out loud. Tell her that you are not there to do her or her home harm (although she may not like any construction). Usually spirits (if there is one there) are trying to tell you something or get a message out. If you cant live with that, i would say move.
i have similar problems i never had depressin till i moved to my home 24 hrs after being here i knew i wasnt right i have had a priest bless the house didnt help then a psychic who cleared it and said there was negative residual energy from previous tenants bringing me down there was a change in atmosphere after that but i can feel the negativity building again and now i just want to move asap i am not strong here and not myself a year ago i wouldnt of even thought any thing like this could happen to me will let you know if it lifts for good when i move and its not all in my head 🙂
I know EXACTLY what you are going thru!!!! I just purchased my home a yr and a half ago. I moved in and things were fine. just about 3-4 months ago I started feeling alot of anxiety and being miserable only when I stepped foot in the house. I can’t go in the basement, something about it scares me. My mood are so up and down within the house and I was never like this before. Extreme overwelmness, depression, not being able to relax. I found out last week that there is a spirit stuck in my basement ( reason I do not go down there ) and that the only reason it is effecting me is becuz I some what believe in them. The spirit will not move threw out the house except the basement becuz of my 22 big dogs that live there. I would suggest you doing a house cleansing. I am, I can’t keep living so miserable. I know it sounds weird but it is nothing to mess around with or brush off. these spirits are real and although most wont harm you but I have had 20 lbs mirrors mysteriously fly up flip over and smash at 2am while im sleeping. Imagine waking up to that??
Okay, I ended up on this site trying to find answers to my problem. Here ya go, have a field day being nasty if you like but I know what I am feeling and what is going on in my life. We moved into an apt about 8 months ago and before I even walked into the door I caught myself hesitating to enter. I immediately hated the place! And since we have moved here, we have had nothing but negative things happening. My husbands job (which is the reason we moved here) is a complete nightmare. I have not been able to find work, our vehicles keep breaking down, we have to keep seeing doctors for different illnesses, we cannot keep up with our bills, we fight and in 15 yrs of marriage we have not been the type to argue. We are both depressed, our ears ring so loud when we are home that we can’t hear the tv. I know beyond any shadow of a doubt that there is something about this place that just is NOT RIGHT! The lady who lives below us is very very negative, I tried to befriend her, carried her groceries and baked goods, listened to her problems, ect. Now we are having issues with her, we have even had to call the police on her a couple of times. She is very over sensitive to noise, we cannot even walk across the kitchen floor without her pounding on the walls. She told me herself that she has lived here almost 5 yrs and hates it, she said the place just depresses her. This building was built around 1959 and has 8 apt units in it. But only our end of the building seems to have this effect on anyone. We have openly talked with our neighbors about this and no one else has the high pitch ringing in their ears or negativity. There is something, and I don’t know how to pin point it or get rid of it. We cannot move out because his employer has us in a contract and they are the ones who supplied the apartment. Someone PLEASE give me so honest (not mean) ideas of what to do to help, besides moving. HELP!! Oh yea one more thing our bedroom is directly above hers.
I had a wierd experience. I live in my flat for 6 years already. and i lived here without problems and i find this flat with so much luck because i got so much luck in my career. then one day, i got engaged and my fiance moved in with me and he invited an old lady whom i did not realize at first has intentions with my fiance and she is totally jealous and as well as she is working on energy as profession. and she was into breaking us. my fiance was quite naive that he is not so quick to pick up what kind of intentions people have in him and he is totally friendly that he got abused. so, after this visit of in our flat, we fought like cats and dogs and i became a negative person that i was a very happy positive person before. and one wierd thing is, where this woman stayed during her visit, i get depressive when i enter the room and i wanted to kill myself…i fight with my fiance endless…and i cannot controll myself anymore like someone possess me….i am not myself anymore and this room we had so much bad memories because we fought so hard after this old woman came here and visit. until now i suffer and i got sick really sick that i have to be medicated and have therapy. a lot of my friends and collegues who have known me for ages have seen the huge change in me and especially i lost weight. yes, she was very, very jealous. any advice what to do? i am really desperate. i went already to energy healers and as well as shamans they told me someone left me a negative energy and 4 different spiritual pracitices i consulted and they said the same. but still this room caused us our relationship. any advice??? If someone can, its a life saver.
it might not have anything to do with the woman who shot her self and it could be that’s the first thing you have to find out ; also you might have gone somewhere and picked up some negative energy and you bought home with this has been known to happen but it also could be the woman that’s why it is important that you find out when and where it started and not make a mistake about it because if it is not the lady and you just think it is and in fact it was something you bought home and that lady is also present she just might be sending you warning signs and if she;s there in fact trying to help you you don’t want to get rid of her i don’t know if your understanding me but you have to be sure thank you everyone bad times are comming