Please read this question with an open- mind.
I know this may seem far fetched, but about a year ago my fiance’ and myself moved into a house.
Not long after we moved in, I started to develop severe depression. I can only explain it as an intense negative emotion, but mostly when I am at home. A feeling of complete sadness overwhelms me almost as soon as I walk in the door.
About a year ago, one of my neighbors told us that the lady that used to live here shot herself and died in my living room. Could this be the cause of this negative energy in my house? My fiance’ said that he gets a negative feeling when he is home too.
I have lived with my fiance’ before with no problems, so I’m pretty sure it’s not because I live with him that I feel this way at home. Anyway, any advice would be great, because I am often home alone due to my fiance’s work schedule, and it’s getting to the point where I hate to be home.
Thanks and please no sarcastic comments, please keep an open -mind.
OK, so apparently, the whole no sarcastic thing didn’t set in here. Although I must say that some of your comments were amusing. Yea I probably do suffer from depression, but I still think my house is haunted and that doesn’t help me at all. I do also believe that if I didn’t know what happened in my house, I would be better off. And for all the helpful advice, thanks.
For everyone else, well I guess I’m glad I’m here to entertain your bored selves.
Also to answer some of your questions.I do live by an Exxon Mobile, and train tracks. I also don’t have a basement, and I have heard that sometimes if you don’t have a basement raydon( don’t know the correct spelling) can seep up from the ground.
If that means anything. My house is pretty old and we may have mold and old paint as well.
And basement Cat, I also forgot to add that my electrical system is very outdated. So if you can give me any more info on what you were saying, it would be very helpful, thanks. Because that does make more sense then having a spirit in my house 🙂
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im always tired ,i feel drained and seem i cant get sleep ,i was born dead at birth and no joke either can feel the enegry of places and ppl as well, i can feel if there is a ghost aka spirit i call them as well, were i live at my brother future wife to be was in a bad wreck as a teen ,her ex was killed ,he hit her and was a bad person, sometimes i think he followed her. we blissed are place ,but we been cleaning the next house next to us, i think they was doining bad thinks in there, since i been there the last few weeks, i have felt something watching me as i sleep, but cant not see this thing, i wake up cold and feel like a mack truck hit me, i got headaches as well every morning ,
I know the feeling. My wife and I moved into a house built in 1886 3 years ago. We are very happy outgoing people. She moved out in December feeling depressed. her and the kids are getting help and I feel depressed with no energy. we are selling the house and hopefully we get back together. The word on the street is, the last five couples that lived here either got a divorce or separated.
It is happening in my house too. we rented this house before we buy it. the landlord told us her mother died in the bedroom. Anyway. I was not happy to hear that!
so I told my husband lets rent it for a year or two until we be able to buy a house. after 2 years the landlord said I would like to sell you the house. I freaked out. I told my husband I do not want to buy this house there is a person died here and there is a bad energy all the time since we moved here even tho I am so in love with the area. SO anyway. we bought the house but for some reason I can not sleep in the master room where she died… Now its been about 4 years living in the same house. my husband condition is not so good (depression, head hurts all the time, feet hurts, he is changed into a mean man full of negative energy. I swear!! we fight almost every day and I can not take it anymore. Recently. My son been telling me his Xbox turned on on its self everyday. I said ok not sure why.. so i sleep next to him, leave the door open and i am not joking I feel like there is someone standing right next to the bed and walking small steps and there the Xbox turned on? wtf. I was like WTF that what it just happened? is it a dream?
So anyway Next day I decided to sleep next to him and I shut the door for 3 days in raw the Xbox did not turn on at night. Yesterday I left the door open. My son wake up saying Mommy the Xbox is on again. Now this is scary…. what do I do? my husband is very attached to this house and he doesn’t want to sell it. 🙁
I had a very similar situation. Two years ago I moved into a new apartment, it was beautiful, spacious, abundant light, and wonderful views. Shortly after I became sad, an unexplainable sadness. I started losing my savings, didn’t fit in at my job. Couldn’t focus and lost a ton of hair. My son began rebelling. I felt like I lost complete control of my life.
In complete despair I reached out to God and Jesus.
It changed my life!!!
I also moved.
I moved into a smaller apartment with less space and less light. But somehow, I feel sooooo much better.
I definitely think certain places are contaminated with toxic energy.
I am married with 2 daughters (15 and almost 10)… we moved into our house in May of 2016. When we first moved in it made me so physically sick I had to stay in 1 room almost all of the time. I attributed this to the previous tenants having multiple animals (I’m allergic to different types of cats and dogs). So I paid out of my own pocket to have carpets and vents ducts all cleaned. This helped both not completely. I’m constantly cleaning vacuuming etc. Since leaving there it feels like we have all begun to have all kinds of different health issues. My husband of 16 years and I argue/fight almost every time we are in the same room together.
My oldest daughter is fighting with depression which was not the case before. I’ve fallen (without explanation) coming out of house into garage. I’ve had extreme nightmares and headaches (worse than any I’ve ever had in my life) also had to have my ovaries removed (excruciating pain for months before doc finally figured out what was wrong). My youngest daughter says the house scares her to the point where she will not sleep in her room and now won’t even stay in the house alone during the day…even if we are home just in the garage or back yard. Now she is having trouble breathing but only in the evening before bed to the point we took her to the ER night before last. The checked everything even chest X-ray and found nothing wrong. Gave her an inhaler and sent her home. She can not explain her fears.
What will help.. Is for you ALL… to acknowledge the spirits presence…. These poor souls are lost, stuck and miserable. If your living in a house knowing or feeling like something or somebody is watching you, DONT IGNORE IT. Speak to it and don’t feel foolish. If you keep ignoring him or her its gonna make the situation in your home worse. But if you acknowledge its presence… calmly with respect I promise you you’ll see and feel a difference. These spirits need help crossing over. Its not all demonic and evil so don’t get freaked out. Keep you’re faith and do some research. Hope this helps.
This is exactly how I feel in my house. I live in my mother’s old family home, and they were miserable unhappy people most of the time. I too, have more money problems, cars breaking down, and just general problems than I have ever had anywhere else. As soon as I leave the house I feel immediately better. Being in this house, I am depressed and anxious and feel that all the energy gets sucked out of me. I sense there are spirits here, I don;t see them but feel their presence sometimes. I really want to move.
I moved from Queens, NY last year to a condo in CT Memorial Day Weekend. I left a bad relationship & couldn’t be happier to be back in my home state. I was happy all the time in that condo, good vibes, motivated to do everything & anything. I cleaned that house top to bottom every week, I had a bunch of friends over almost everyday to hang out & I was absolutely happy. It was like this for the whole summer & fall. Come December, I noticed the vibe of the house starting to change. I was no longer so motivated, people only came over if they wanted something from me (mostly friends I graduated with too broke to buy their own booze), & I started feeling like there was a presence in my house. I thought they were good spirits so I left it alone. They’ve gained more power to the point that I can see them in pictures, a naked eye, I can feel them & hear them. Then I started feeling worse & more unmotivated. I started getting sick all the time. I was sick for like 6 weeks straight at one point with no reason. I feel depressed & anxious more often, people have drifted from me & my love life is god awful. I had the man I’m in love with over for 3 days & when he left his attitude changed. What happened was back in late November, a friend of mine from high school died & she was also one of my best friend’s sister. I was so heartbroken by her death & seeing her in that casket that I tried to summon her one night in my bedroom by standing in front of my mirror with a candle & saying her name. I eventually got an answer but I’m starting to wonder if it was her or just a deceitful spirit. I forgot to close the portal. So I asked a psychic & it turns out all the spirits in my house are evil & they’re the source of the negativity in my life & the bad things happening to me. I made a mistake & let that into my house & was unaware of the fact that they were bad so they’ve been there for months now. I’ve tried many different methods to close the portal & get them out but they’re stubborn. Each day feels like purgatory at this point & I’m doing my best to get them out of my house.
It’s possible that’s there’s more, there is something l want to suggest that you try.
I want you to take a broom and start sweeping the sealings on down the walls really clean every spec of dust any durt you can find in your house, l want you in each room and sweep or vacuum the floors of each room in the house. And sweep any remaining dust or durt out your front back or side doors, sweeping it out side.
After that get some sage sticks and burn them in each room while facing north say the prayer while facing south east and then west saying a prayer do this in each room of your house any prayer. I learned this technique from a bunch of Indian women lve done this to my house a few times it’s really helped me.
I recently started having bad energy start with in my house. I came home and all the screws to a door were lying side by side on the floor, and the cat was going crazy right in that area also/ i also started having really vivid dreams of sadness or fear. So i smudged my house and put black crystals over the doorways…helped a lot.
I just read your entry and I experienced a similar situation since we moved into our house 6 years ago….a feeling of sadness when I am home and feel so much better when I am not. Also, the minute I first set foot in this house, when we first looked at it, I felt sad from the minute I stepped into it. It’s a very pretty old house and we have renovated the kitchen and decorated nicely but it still feels the same.
I see your entry is from 2014, how are you doing now?
I moved into my house 3 years ago this July and I don’t like living here anymore. We found out shortly after we moved in that the previous owners son died in this house he was only a teenager. Ever since I found this out I have not felt right in this house. We have re done the whole house but still doesn’t feel right the only time I’m really happy is out of the house I dread going home and also get an overwhelming sadness in the house is this just a coincidence or do you think there is more to it?
You who are having spirt propels need first to accept jesus as your savior. Any pla e I move in to i pray out loud. Lord jesus pleas get rid of any and all evil who can harm anyone or pets in this house
Lord I trust you and rebuke satan. Lord clear the ground and all things on this property. Blessings all people and pet and any items brought into this house. IN THE NAME OF THE LORD JESUS CHRIST I CAST OUT ALL EVIL LIVING HERE. I pray that this house will be clear of any one or items who is causing problems to our family. In JESUS holy name .
Yes, you are probably feeling leftover negative energy. I feel it instantly when I walk in to my mothers house. Try saging the house. That is known to clear out negative energy. You can look online to find out how to do it . I decided to move back into my mothers house to save on rent, and I had to get out of there. There was so much negative energy in there and like a feeling of depression, an. As soon as I got out of there I didn’t feel it anymore. So yes it very well is most likely the energy in the house. And being that the lady that lived there before you committed suicide, she was most likely depressed. Definitely try staging.
I definitely do believe in “energies” and from my experience they do travel along train tracks. Keeping the house windows open as often as possible and filling the house with as much natural light as possible definitely helps, create a cross ventilation/breeze to allow all the stagnant air to be moved out.
You also mentioned that your electrical system is old? This can be hugely negative to your body and mental well being. Your body creates positive ions and so does the electrical wiring in your house (unless it is earthed correctly) too much positive ions in the body creates inflammation thus leading to a physical sluggishness and general feeling of being unwell, Which in turn messes with your psyche – depression, etc. (Mold does this also).
Replacing your electrical system would be the best option but who has that kind of money laying around. Having a technician from your electricity provider come to the house and check if/or how well your house is eathed would be a good idea (being earthed reduces the positive ions -the bad ones- and increases the negative ions -the good ones-)
Correctly earthing your house will help to clear that heavy energy feeling you are experiencing.
You can also do this to your body. Bare feet on fresh earth, or wet concrete also is good. The best is to stand in the surf, the ocean is the best source of negative ions. If you can’t make it to the surf, a moderately flowing stream/river is the second best option.
If you don’t know anything about earthing, think of it like this-
Your body absorbed positive ions(little electrical floaties that create more electricity in your body) your body cant release these positive ions by itself. When standing bare feet on the earth or in the surf, you are creating a circulatory electrical current, releasing the positive ions from your body into the earth and absorbing negative ions into the body (negative ions are like empty batteries that are going to absorbed all the ‘loose’ energy in your body and thus become positive ions and released back into the earth- through your feet.)
Ever walk into an electrical store (where all the switched on tv’s are on display) and you can just feel that buzzing/humming energy coming from them? That positive ions -the badies.
My advice, try earthing your house. Loose energy really messes with the body.
Windows open and lots of natural light.
Hello my name is Merissa I’m 19 years old
Strange things have been happening in my home
Well my parents home I still live with them
But I work at home until I can move with my boyfriend
Anyways about two years ago this September 15th my grandparents both were killed in a car accident the last place they were at was in our home…
But since they past away I’ve had very vivid dreams
About seeing them up in heaven and hugging me you know a sign saying I’m safe don’t worry.
But that’s not the issue…
I am a nail tech in training I bring a lot of people
Into my home to do nails
My mom has depression
I have bad anxiety
My father doesn’t believen spirits
So I know this is going to sound crazy
One evening ( everyone was awake)
Doing our own thing I was petting my dog
Rubbing her belly all that cute stuff
In the hall way I felt this weird…. Scary
Feeling like someone was trying to pounce and scare me so my cat was also there it felt so close to me…
I had no technology on like no head phones in
No laptops on just me my dog n cat
Then I heard the most saddest/Scarist
Voice…. I’ve ever heard it whispered my name
So crystal clear it said ” Merissa…”
My eyes opened wide up I SCREAMED!
I ran down stairs like a baby too my only sibling
He said ” what’s wrong? You look scared to death”
I cried telling him what was wrong ( our parents are hard to convince when it comes to this stuff)
My brother believed me he felt my heart racing from shock he knew I wouldn’t scream for no reason
Two months later after visiting my. Boyfriend
I’m back home I keep hearing things I haven’t been able to sleep in a week in a half!
I know I am a young adult but I’m terrified
I tried burning a candle saying a prayer
Nothing’s worked I tell it goodnight in my mind
It leaves me alone for a bit
But my dog scratched at my door and her eyes were big she’s starting at my door not wagging her tail just scared it was 5 in the morning! So I don’t know what to do… I’m going crazy no ones died here
Oh! & one more thing my mom told me
That she was using the washroom one night
So she thought my father was in there with her
She said ” what are you doing?”
Then she realized my father was asleep
In there bed 🙁 she said it was a dark shadow
It doesn’t hurt us just scared us!! Please I need. Answers 🙁 I need to get rid of it whatever the hell is in my home
I really need help I’m 13 and my parents got divorced when I was 3. My dad bought a house 2 years a go at the moment I go to my dads every other weekend. Ever since he bought the house I’ve need feeling really depressed and hear things in the night, when we get up nothing’s fallen or out of place. Sometimes I feel like someone’s watching me. The house feels heavy and whenever I tell my dad he just laughs I recently told him agein and he now thinks I’m crazy and need mental help I’m on the way to not wanting to go there anymore and I now I’m not crazy because I feel fine at my mums and basically anywhere else my dad is now very depressive. Can someone please help! Urgent!!!
Hi There…yes it is possible & i can completely relate to what you are going through…i lost my parents in a span of 6 months in 2012..since then i am living all by myself….having said that i have experienced many changes in the environment at my place (depression,no progress personal or professional,feeling of someone standing behind me when i am alone,feeling of air pressure,sadness). First things first if you can then please move out…if cant then you need is a cleansing..have incense stick…mob your home once a week with sea salt mixed water (as it is earth element)…also have godly figure…don’t flood your home with them..but in important places where you feel there is an issue…
i have an option to move out..finally will to a new place…but will make sure to follow the above mentioned remedies at my new apartment right from day one.
Glad to see that I’m not alone in thinking this. I suffer with depression, but I’ve found a pattern in it – I only feel negative when at home. Everywhere else, at work, with others or alone, I don’t feel it at all. Literally within minutes of stepping in the door at home it starts. Sudden feeling of negativity, anger, frustration, wanting to be left alone, feeling like the walls are closing in.
Hi. I was in a similar situation only I was at the hospital. Yes all hospitals give heebee jeebees to people, but its the nature of the persons injuries/illnesses really in most cases. This was not the case with me. Some of the hospital felt normal, but I transferred to a trauma unit and the room was almost candle lit dark at high noon. When I was wheelchaired in, the energy was so thick and heavy. Typically there are a few tell tale signs I keep hearing or reading about. But may vary slightly.
Step 1. Extreme dread and fear in equal measure as well as vulnerability and other negative emotions for no reason
Step 2. Feeling like I was being Watched from all directions, but know you are alone.
Step 3. Depending on the situation, my case I felt like spirit acivity was making me feel OPPRESSED (feeling victimized by something/someone).
Step 4. I felt like a dark history had taken place. First I felt like I was surrounded and trapped. Secondly, I felt like a hostage. Lastly, hostage taker. I had strong visions of deja vu and its true meaning.
There’s more but I hope this little bit helped