Masturbation has never harmed anybody. But the moment when a person masturbates is a very sensitive and delicate moment; his whole being is open and flowing. In that moment if some suggestion is dropped in his mind — and he himself will drop the suggestion, “Now what if I go mad? if I go blind? if I remain always stupid?” — these constant autohypnotic suggestions are the cause of a thousand and one illnesses, of a thousand and one psychological problems, perversions.


In India, they used to say – if you go to old saints and their followers, they still go on saying – that one drop of semen means forty days of work for the body. So for forty days the body has to work, then one drop of semen is created. So if one drop is lost, forty days of life is wasted.


If you want to meet celibates you go to a Catholic monastery, and you will meet celibates doing nothing but masturbating.

I don’t see that anybody can be naturally celibate. He is bound to become a pervert, some way or other.


The first thing: whenever you make love to a woman or a man, that is the right moment to look for the inner woman or the inner man. Whenever you make love to a woman, do it with closed eyes, make it a meditation. The woman outside always helps the inner woman to become awake. And when you make love your inner energies, both male and female, come to a peak. When the orgasm happens, it is not between you and the outer woman, it always happens between you and the inner woman.

So if you are alert you will become aware of the phenomenon that inside a meeting of energies is happening. And whenever this happens, the orgasm will be all over the body; it will not be local, it will not be confined to the sex center. If it is confined to the sex center it is just masturbation, nothing else. Orgasm means the whole body, every fiber of the body throbs with a new life, with a new energy, because much energy is released by the meeting. The meeting is happening within, but if you go on looking outside you will miss.

The outer woman or the outer man is just a representative of the inner. When you fall in love with a woman or a man, you fall in love only because that woman or man corresponds somehow with the inner. That’s why you cannot give any reasons why you are in love with this woman, because it is not a rational thing at all.

You carry a woman within. Whenever any woman fits with that inner woman, suddenly you are in love. That love is not manipulated by you, it is not your mind that is falling in love, it is something very unconscious. In this woman you have a glimpse, suddenly you feel that this is the right person.


Chi has been used to repress, not to express.


Originally Posted in Discussion Forum

Honestly, i’m into spiritualism alot. I meditate occasionally to sense my soul and increase my inner energy. Improve it, control it, project it to gain some telekinesis and psychokinesis skills as well as master lucid dreaming and astral projection. However, i usually come to a day that i have strong sexual energy which i can not rid of it except by sex, or masturbating. The libido is so distracting to my mind and thinking, i can not rid of the sexual thinking or do anything else until i rid of this sexual energy.

So what i do is, i do twice and then everything becomes O.K. However, this puts me down because i feel Oh Lord, i have wasted my efforts towards meditation since after masturbating i feel weak inside, lazy, laid down, i’m not willing to start meditating and feel the energies and try to project it, etc. I feel my awareness of the surroundings gets reduced to a level that i do not feel the pulse of the third eye. But after days everything gets back to its normal state. However, after masturbating i feel i’m taking myself backward. If i have not masturbated, i would have improved faster.

If you do not believe in spiritualism, please do not comment….