Hah… no , not as much as possible. That covers a lot of ground.
Are you referring specifically to Wiccan? Are one of you Wiccan? If either of you are in a coven you might check with elders of your trad.
Basically you have a lot of freedom to design it. Wiccan weddings are generally referred to as a handfasting.
My husband and I were handfasted (I’m a Wiccan Witch, he’s a generic Pagan); we were married by my High Priest and Priestess in full ritual style (circle, quarters, invocations, etc.). We had programs printed out for non-Pagan family & friends to follow along so they would understand what is going on (though most guests were Pagan). Our hands were bound and we lept a broom. We exchanged rings and vows. We had a drum band and we danced with our guests. We bought a special cup to drink out of during the ceremony. Then we had a huge barbecue and partied.
A good place to start would be reading up. A couple of books you might find useful:
A Witch’s Bible by Janet and Stewart Farrar
Witchcraft Today Series, Book Two: Rites of Passage (edited) by Chas S. Clifton
Another good place to begin would be looking for Wiccan/Pagan clergy in your town; try www.witchvox.com or your local unitarian universalist church with a CUUPs division. Once you find someone who can perform the ceremony they will help you design it and probably be able to direct you to resources.