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Love or sex?

Here is a video of a Tantra practitioners opinion. What do you think?


That’s OK Sunman, is the Cosmicdrifter still alive? I love you too brother. I guess he is. : )
The divison in the answers looks to me like this.
1. People, the world, the whole universe is a mistake.
2. Everything is as it should be, love is the answer, sacred sex or the love a couple has for each other can end ignorance. : )

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cosmic chameleon
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cosmic chameleon

Both! “Sex,” I agree, is more an animalistic experience, seeking a means to an end; the orgasm. While “making love” is an experience where the animals disappear, and a melding of the hearts, and minds, take place. There is no “end” when making love, for it has no defined beginning. Whereas sex is a physical act with a beginning and an ending. Both “sex” and “love” (or “making love”) can be separated from each other. But, as I have always believed… they shouldn’t be! Sex, to me, is the animalistic (physical/outer) expression of the soul’s (spiritual/inner) deepest need for union… Read more »

tiddle
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tiddle

Gee Patrick u must desire being horny alot don’t u hound mutt.

lilmomma
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lilmomma

love with out sex is wrong and then you should leave them

Ian, der weiße Krieger
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Ian, der weiße Krieger

I think it should be love AND sex. Maybe love can exist without sex but not conversely, otherwise it would be meaningless and our energy wouldn’t be increased but diminished.

michelle
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michelle

Really cleared up sex within a marriage/committed relationship and affairs or one- night stands- meant a lot to me personally!!!!!! Thanks!
I do agree that between love or sex- I would prefer to feel loved and needed than just a “goal”.

JOE N
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JOE N

I found it difficult to follow his droning presentation but what I did get was rather basic to anyone with any experience with love and sex. I have had sexual experiences where I wished I had just gone home and masturbated. I could have at least imagined some love there. I have also had very nice, caring, loving sex where we were both wanting to please one another. I love spending an entire evening finding her most comfortable rhythm searching for the buttons that I can push to turn her on. As I am writing this it occurs to me… Read more »

Carisa
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Carisa

Sex is a part of this love thing.

Sorry, can’t view the video at work.

Bob G
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Bob G

Sex is good excercise and a great way of helping somebody else enjoy themselves, to share something. If you think love has to be there for sex to be natural or good you are kidding yourself. And it works the other way too. Love does not have to include sex. They are two seperate things that can and often do cross over. How many couples have sex because they see it as an obligation and they are afraid the other may leave if they don’t get enough sex? Just because you love somebody does not mean that you have to… Read more »

JerZey
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JerZey

love is committed

sex is for animals

grey_worms
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grey_worms

is provocative… makes us stop and think about what we think… interesting spin on things… although it is not ours… and we will not adopt it as such… the best lies are almost or are entirely a truth with presentation… personifying love and sex… bah humbug… sort of sexiest in how he picks on the woman “she is the prize of existence”… “sex is impatient”… for us patience is a last resort weather its in relation to love or sex or anything… “sex is false”… what kind of silliness… how can sex be true or false… it is not capable… Read more »

J. Shree Radha
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J. Shree Radha

The guy has no idea what real love is. He is a rascal. Sex is for procreation. That is written in all holy scriptures. Anyone who thinks sex is about Love when it is done outside of marriage or not for procreation, is fooling themselves. I understand that God knows what He made sex for better than all these bogus so called sex gurus. Reject the rascals follow What God says. Illicit sex only binds one to the bodily conception of life and one will again have to take another birth in this material world. If we can learn the… Read more »

Jed
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Jed

Just one more individual putting out his own ideas…and some one will believe it.
Getting people to believe is not the problem. The problem is that they will believe anything.

shivamat bhairav
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shivamat bhairav

It is a great thought and I have to thank you for giving me a chance to watch the clip.In fact this is why we are born as humans to understand love as the base of sex.But we think that sex is our basic instinct but I say love is our basic instinct .Sex is just one of the impaired expression of Love.What Mr long said is perfect and we have to dig ourselves in realising the Knowledge..

Sirius
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Sirius

Love is a merger of two beings, two hearts, selflessly coming into union to create oneness…sex is selfish and sees separation from the other, it is a “using” for one’s own gratification and involves subject/object. When love and sex meet there is a fulfillment, a celebration of the other as oneself…without barriers or divisions. When love and sex are expressed together as a holy uniting and a mutual orgasmic peak is achieved, then simple duality love becomes Universal Love, Divine Love. for in this moment of bliss, two become one in the One, eternal and divine, and both disappear…there is… Read more »

innerpeacemom
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innerpeacemom

Sex without love is violence. I agree. Love between a man and a woman includes sex, of course, but the love is the motivation for it. Sex has a goal, orgasm. Loving has no goal but to fulfill itself in Love. There is a huge difference between love and sex. “Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by… Read more »

Sunman
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Sunman

No…it’s not an ‘either/or’…sex is an expression of love…sex without love is unnatural… there’s no basic difference between love of a parent for a child, brother for a sister, husband for a wife…just different expressions and all love affirms.

—–oops! I shoulda watched the video first…oh well…I Love You CosmicDrifter.

jimmbobb
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jimmbobb

. It’s a longggg, 4-minutes of Boredom!!
This fool is trying to romantisize ‘love’. Love is just another name for ‘sexual attraction’, just like any animal does. We want to have babies and so to make it sound less animalistic, we call it ‘love’.
Give me a break.