Lesbian Wiccan and Pagan folks.In a same sex handfasting should the brides have different color dresses?






My life partner and I are to be handfasted this years and are presently discussing our dresses and colors for them. What say you, should we be different colors or same?
Please no christan hate agenda answers!


  1. That….is….a very interesting question that never even occured to me before. If you had two different colors for the wedding it would be cool if your dresses were one of each color, but at the same time its uniting you both as one, so I could see the argument for having them the same. Hmm…I just can’t decide.

  2. I’ve only been to one same-sex wedding ceremony (and unfortunately it wasn’t a Wiccan one), but the brides were both wearing white. Then again, both of them wanted a very traditional wedding, and you might not, so I guess it depends on how original versus traditional the rest of your wedding is.
    Congratulations, by the way, I’m glad you’ve both found someone who makes you happy! 🙂

  3. Congrats & bright blessings to you both.
    It’s your call of course, go with what makes you both happy.
    I would think either the same color but different styles– or same style but different (matching/coordinating) colors, and maybe accessories that match.
    This way there is some sort of uniformity, without having a Bopsie twins look to it.

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