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Is there anyway to counteract or make negative energy not an issue even though I deal with alot of it everday?

My co-workers are constantly making me feel bad because there constantly making fun of me for the things that are wrong in my life or things that I should have in my life but don’t. On top of all that a co-worker is constantly saying terrible things about my family members.
Is there anyway to make this negative energy not an issue, even though I deal with it everyday ?

4 COMMENTS

  1. That really sucks. I’d try to find another job.. but I don’t know if you want to do that. Um, try to ignore them I guess. Depending on what they are like, you might be able to talk to them about how much it’s bothering you and ask them if they’d stop.
    Hope it works out.

  2. Stress can be managed by many different natural methods.
    The first thing that you need to do is to find out the cause of your stress. Once you have found the cause of your stress, you need to address this fact. The cause may be something that you can eliminate, or it can be something with which you have to live.
    In many cases, stress is the result of something happening with your job. In such a case, you have to ask yourself if the job is worth your health and the health of your entire family. Remember, when you suffer from stress, it often causes others to suffer from the same stress. If you are employed at a place where you are actually stressed out all the time, is it really worth it to continue in this employ? What sort of quality of life do you have if you hate what you have to do every single day?
    Quality of life has significant value, or at least it should. There comes a point in everyone’s life when they have to decide what is truly important. Remember that no one ever, on their death bed, lamented that they didn’t work hard enough. Many of us end up not seeing the truly important aspects of life until it is too late.
    If you can eliminate the stressor, be it a personal relationship, a job, or even a certain situation, you will be all the happier for it in the long run. If a job or a person is really giving you that much stress, to the point that you have to seek professional health – is it or they really worth it?
    Are you involved in a toxic relationship that is causing you stress? Get out of it now. Hate your job to the point where you dread going into work on Monday morning? Find another job that you won’t hate. Even if you have to take a pay cut, it is well worth it to enjoy quality of life.
    If the cause of your stress is something over which you have no control, you need to evaluate the problem, face it and seek help. There are many different counseling methods that incorporate behavior techniques to address stress. Medication can be useful in some situations, but tranquilizes should never be a long term “cure” for stress.
    Natural cures for stress include behavior management techniques, proper diet and exercise, herbal remedies and yoga techniques. These will actually work towards alleviating your stress.

  3. You could get a new job.
    You could have a talk with the boss.
    You could listen to your IPOD while you work.
    Negative energy? I’m not sure how you can turn that around unless you become their hero…
    TX Mom

  4. WEll, don’t tell them about your personal life for one. Second talk to HR about it. If you are afraid to tell them they are hurting your feelings then tell HR to talk to them about it.

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