Im a 20 year old female and I chop and change in my mind about who I think I am and i just want to know! When people say just be yourself…well I am being myself I just cant decide. Ive been really spiritual and into tarot and witchcraft and stuff like that but making my life all about it is just not me. I want to be classy and wear heels and highwaisted skirts and have art on my walls, but the other half of me loves rock music and piercingsand having rock posters on my walls. That does not mix with classy at all and then there are times when Im really girly and love pink stuff and sparkly stuff. I feel like my head is about to explode. Im scared that if i decide to be the classy person in me and take my piercings out and decorate my house all modern then im gonna wanna go back to having piercings and posters on the walls instead of art. Its really hard to describe what Im going through. Has anyone experienced this? Thanks to all that read this and respond with respectful answers.