I met my husband a year ago and we had premarital sex a lot. He is very religious and had a prob. with it, but we did it anyway. Now that we’re married (under 6 mos) he says he has totally lost his sex drive. He said he is struggling with the fact that we “sinned” before our wedding (even tho both of us have been married before), and although he’s asked God to forgive him, he knows that he is forgiven, but is still struggling with it. I have accused him of having an affair or even being a homosexual because I know he did experiment with that before we met. He denies both. Nothing else has changed in our relationship to warrant such a lack of drive for him–we don’t argue and there’s no stress besides this issue. How in the world can i compete with such a “reason” as he’s giving me (spiritual one). He knows i am attracted to him and i stroke his ego often. Help!