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How do you patch up a broken heart?

Alright, here’s the story:
I met a girl way back when I was finishing up high school. We hit off rather well, and she ended up being my best friend (she still is). At one point we tried dating, but because there was a lot of distance between us, it didn’t work out. Flash forward a couple years- I never really got over her, because I felt that, if we ended up at the same college, I might have another chance.
Well, I just recently found out that is not the case- despite the closeness of our friendship, she thinks we’ve changed too much- which may very well be true.
However, what do I do about the resulting heartbreak? I’ve tried trying to date other people (I asked out, and was rejected by, no less than 15 girls in the last semester- and next semester looks the same), I’ve picked up new interests and hobbies (even Zen meditation), I’ve started doing the whole self-improvement thing, made new friends, even got professional help- none of it has truly helped.
So, any suggestions?

5 COMMENTS

  1. It is kind of hard to patch a broken heart, you have to open your chest in order to do so…I think (don’t quote me on this) you can buy those patches like you use on bicycle tires…oh yeah and just go and get drunk at a party some night and get laid…then you will get right over all of that….

  2. well, im a girl but i sit around and mope for a while, I mourn and then i get up and get on with my life. a breakup, while it hurts badly when you do it, in time you will get over it no matter how hard it is to believe at the time.

  3. DAMN MATE SORRY TO HEAR 15 REJECTIONS BUT HEY AT LEAST U GOT OUT THERE AND TRIED YEH? I GIVE YOU MUCH CREDIT FOR THAT. LISTEN FORGET ABOUT HER SHE IS PROBLY WHY U ARE GETTIN REJECTED COS SHE HAS MADE U WEAK. TRY JUST HOOKIN UP WITH GIRLS FOR SOME NO STRINGS ATTACHED FUN FORGET ABOUT TRYIN TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS THEY ARE TOO MUCH WORK ANYWAY. DONT WORRY BOUT REJECTIONS COS WE ALL GET THEM BUT THE KEY IS GETTING THEM IN BED THEN U SHOW THEM HOW GOOD U ARE AND THEY WILL START CALLIN U OFTEN.

  4. well i dont know too much but i know that you are going through a hard time dont live in the past live in the present you are not your past so dont even thing about the past b/c that over so get out there be more outgoing and just have fun you can get over her just have a Little Faith

  5. Only time can heal broken hearts. Those feelings for her may never go away but little by little it will ease in time. It sounds like you are still in school. Stop looking for love and focus on your education. One day when you least expect someone will come into your life and you will fall in love all over again and years down the road when your married you will probably look back and thank God you didn’t marry her instead. That’s how it happened for me.

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