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How Do I Tell If My Friend Is A Lesbian & Likes Me The Way I Like Her?

Ok, straight to the point…I have a friend that I’ve known for 1 year & 6 months. She’s dark skinned, slim, beautiful, smart, big brown eyes, bright smile, long black hair, tall. I’m 18 and she’s 20 making 21 in October. For the short time i’ve known her i must admit we’ve gotten very close. She’s french so its normal she gives me a kiss on the left and the right side of my cheek. And i cant help but blush when she does it. I love absolutely everything about her and everything she does. She makes my day. When i’m with her i cant help but stare at her. We do alot of things together, shop, dance, swim nearly everything together. When i go to visit her she’ comes runnin and she hugs me and gives me a kiss. But I’ve noticed now that wen she kisses me now its muc closer to my lips, or she gives me a kiss on my lips, she holds my hands and watches me in my eyes whenever she’s talking to me. She kisses my hand when i have to go, sometimes i dont want to. But just last weekend we got even more closer then we were before. This weekend we went out at this club called Tantra. We were dancing enjoying ourselves havin a good time, she always dances with me. But a certain song played, a slow song, so we got closer to each other and we were dancing, she held my hands tighter and kissed me on my forehead. Basically for the rest of the nite we jus focused on each other. after the club we went home, her home. She asked me to spend the night, well morning with her because i was leaving to go back to my island (by the way we live in the caribbean)…so we went in her room and again she was holding my hands, we were talkin for a while but then she fell asleep on my chest. i couldnt help but admire her beauty, so calm and peaceful. When she woke up she caught me watching her and she smiled and told me she loves me, that she loves me more then she ever loved any of her past boyfriends, but i dont kno if she meant as a friend or as a potential lover. I want to kiss her but i dnt want to scare her or ruin the relationship we established. I feel that we’d be a great couple but because we’re so close already i’m afraid if we get into a relationship and that the relationship doesnt work out, i might lose her as a friend and a lover. And i really dont want that to happen, i dont know what to do. when im not around her i jus sit and think about her, i miss her so much, and i love her with all my heart.


  1. Dear Miranda, sometimes in life we need to take a leap of faith and this is one of those times. You need to talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. Not only the love you feel, but the fear you have of losing her forever. You two are so close now…she is probably feeling the same way. Don’t rush this conversation, but wait for the perfect time. I am thinking she is feeling the same way.

  2. well from the sound of it, i think you don’t want to be her friend. being JUST her friend is killing you and making you crazy. You want to be her girlfriend. and from the sound of your story she wants to be yours. So I would say to stop wondering if you will ruin the friendship and make a move. plus, even if you did make a move and she wasn;t into it (which seems unlikely to me) then she seems so nice and open that she wouldn’t let it effect the friendship you guys have if it matters than much to you. she told you she loved you more than any of her other relationships, so you can probably rest assured that things will not be lost between you two. no matter what happens. that said, MAKE IT HAPPEN. make a move. what do you have to lose? nothing. What do you have to gain? everything you want. do it. ASAP. now.

  3. This really almost made me cry. My eyes are literally watering. This sounds like true love to me. I can honestly say that the two of you are in love with one another. I really think that you should do something nice for her. Set up a dinner at your place with romantic candle light, nice music in the background, and don’t forget to kiss her!

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