I sometimes find it difficult to make a decision, and often ask people for their advice. This seems to annoy them and they seem not to want to know. I have been to counseling, aromatherapy, and even past life regression. But nothing really has helped. I want to have the confidence to make a decision and also the self-esteem, to take the rejections, and failures that come from everyday life. I even looked a confidence spells, in the desperate hope for a solution to my problem. I think it come from a fear that I am inadaquate, and unlovable, a negative self-image. Despite people say, ‘I’m nice’, or ‘good person’, I feel they say it to make me feel better, not because it’s true. I have been on assertiveness training, and a confidence course, but all this and more does not find solution.