My wife and I have had a rough start in our marriage and we both made mistakes and didn’t include God in our marriage like we should have and now she got close to single brother and disclosed her problems in our marriage and was counseled against that and that brother broke off contact with her, and that happened a year ago and now 3 months ago she left and separated from me when the elders told her there was no scriptural reason to do so and she has been planning it since January and I have changed and went to counseling for myself. I wasn’t the best husband and didn’t treat her with respect like I should have and learned from my past mistakes and the elders wrote to the society on our situation and the faithful slave said marriage is a covenant before God and she should stay and work it out and she didn’t like hearing that and rejected that counsel and moved out shortly. Anyways, the elders can see how she rebelled and wants nothing to do with me and hates me and wants to be with a man just not me and is mad at God for the arrangement of Marriage, that she is stuck with me. They saw how she got emotionally attached to a single brother in our hall and now since she is by herself and doesn’t want to be in paradise if that means she has to be my wife. She works now on 2nd shift at a restaurant and has disclosed her feelings and marital problems and how she views me with single worldly workmates. They can see she is vulnerable and they all know she views herself as a single person. But one person in particular has gotten close and she trusts him and tells him everything and loves working with him and this man lied to her saying he is divorced when he is not and tells her everything she wants to hear and said he would not have a fling with her like other guys but a relationship. I see all these problems escalating and pray everyday for her. But is there anything I can do????? Is this maybe post partum depression? We have 3 kids and she has turned into a completely different person and our youngest is 2 years old. She doesn’t want anyone to tell her what to do and how to live her life. She is in pain and hurting inside and I understand her feelings and want to help but I can’t do anything. I thought maybe she has become hard-hearted and this a dangerous spiritual condition. Any help is much appreciated. Thanks!