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    A question for the guys out there… please. as much help as possible is appreciated!?

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        by Chris F:

        I went clubbing with a friend several states away last Friday, and we stayed for the weekend. We met this little group of friends, and we went to dinner with them the following night. Then HE happened. We connected on every level. From 7 PM to 3:30 AM we were in our own world. I couldn’t believe it. Finally, someone who gets me. But he’s in one state, Im in another. 5 states difference. The next day, we went shopping and hung out all afternoon. We discussed it and we decided maybe we should call it a good weekend and make a clean break… because both of us were getting a little teary-eyed and emotional… so we left each other with a kiss on the cheek… with no contact information in either of our hands.
        But now… I can’t get him out of my mind.
        I really feel like I should tell him how I feel. Not that I am in love, but just to say thanks. I know he works at a theatre, as a performer, and I want to just mail him a simplistic thank you card saying…
        “There’s a chance you may never read this…
        …but I need to tell you anyway.
        I wanted to say thank you.
        Thank you for being there.
        Thank you for making me feel like a human being again.
        Thank you for showing me the value of honesty, no matter how little or big.
        Thank you for making me smile.
        Thank you for the bittersweet memories.
        Thank you for showing me that a friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.
        Thank you for reminding me that some people do care.
        Thank you for reminding me that tears can heal some wounds.
        Thank you for making me realize that sometimes you put walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.
        Thank you for giving me the energy to keep going.
        Thank you for the self-confidence.
        And most of all, thank you for just being you, even though I may never see you again.
        Thank you.”
        Would you do this? How would you react if you got this card?
        Help! I need opinions!
        I meant to say 5 hours away, not 5 states away… it’s just 3 states.
        lol

        Answer by Mr. ’86
        This is so tragic. I felt so heartbroken for you just reading this.
        Love-at-first-sight doesn’t happen to everyone and it sounds like you were lucky enough to experience it.
        Personally, I think it was a mistake to not stay in touch with this guy. You should find out where he is and get your man! 5 hours is NOTHING.

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        Wierd

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        I think it’s sweet. I think you should tell them how you feel. Even if it doesn’t seem like they care, they probably do. Just try your best.

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        i’ll be the first to say that long distance relationships can work.
        my first was an LDR and it lasted for a year and some change.
        we spent every other weekend together and talked on the phone constantly.
        if you two both feel the same, theres no reason that it cant work.

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        I’d say if you want to start where you left off, actually consider a real relationship, they search him down and send the card and go for it. Otherwise, don’t open the wounds. Either go for it, a long term relationship, or just the clean break. No wishy washy in between.

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        That’s really sweet, if you two really did connect I don’t think I would be unappropriated, but I would make sure that the card was sent with a return address, maybe not yours, but just in case.

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        if i got that card id say WTF and im not gay

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        do something about it cus if its meant to happen it will happen;] go back there this week

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        Man I started to tear up!
        I would cry if I got a letter like this from someone that I had a GREAT time with!!!
        But in a good way!!!

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        I would be burning up Craig’s List with postings for this guy if I was so lovestruck. Just post it in his state and put enough details in it so that if he or one of his friends that was in the group see it,they will forward it to him. Include that thank you. If he reads that he will hit you up.

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