where should a person be socially at the age of 26?
i don't want to grow up but honestly who does? but i have an overwhelming amount of responsibilities so i act like an old boring hag and my peers have pointed this out to me ( i used to be a ball) so i find myself relating to older people but i really want to be around people my age. The down side is that people my age seem to party all the time and i just can't because of all the sh*t i have to take care of? can anyone relate or give me suggestions on how oto be more balanced or is this where i should be @ my age????
Where ever you want to be socially.
Make sure you're not overdoing it on the responsibilities, be sure to take SOME time for yourself.
You'll find someone your age, I assure you. Not everyone likes to party - I'll probably be one of those people sitting in a library/park reading.
just be who you are dont try to act like what you dont want to be hang out with people that like the stuff you like.i hope this helps you
I believe that for the most part, women start concerning themselves with the issues you've described around 25. Men sometimes as early as 30-but as late as 50
You're growing up. Whats wrong with that? Some people are already married with children at your age. Not everyone in your age group can party all the time. Maybe some of them can, but it really depends on the kind of life you have. My sister is 27 but she grew out of the party stage many years ago.
socially you should be married and settled financially. My father was married when he was 21 yrs.
In my fathers case by 26th years myself and my sister & a brother were born & I was in school, and there are advantages of this too, my father is seeing my kids and possibly he might attend the marriage of my son who is 7 yrs old now and he may get married by 25-26 yrs, because my father is 63 now,( and I 37yrs).
There can be different views on this but In India where I belong marriages used to happen at early ages and guys learned to handle the responsibilities much earlier than in the current scenario.
By now, you should know what you want out of your life, and be on the way to achieving it if your peers are out partying, where are they going to be in another 5 years. Know what you want and go get it while your still able