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Rena D
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Your question should be “How do I stop being lazy? ” Lazy people earn $9 per hour. If you want to be good at something you have to learn how to do it. Did you bother? No you say well I guess if you don’t do something about it you will stay a loser BUT if you really want to you could stop being lazy and learn things and stop being lazy. I h ope you do. You are not too old to get started.

Firecracker
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Firecracker

Let’s look at this. No. You should not give up hope. What would that accomplish? More negative behaviors leading to more negative consequences leading to more inadequate feeling. Who *wants* that? A pessimistic attitude breeds pessimistic behavior. A positive attitude breeds positive behavior. How about counting your blessings? Let’s try. Keep in mind that some of your blessings are easy to identify. Some are unseen & you will never truly know how blessed you really are, however, just *know* that you are. * You’re 48 yrs old & alive. * You have been blessed with the ability to read. *… Read more »

Nikki L
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Nikki L

No, DO NOT GIVE UP
go out, meet people get some inspiration, live life to the maxx!!
you are not old, i know people who are 76 and did their VCE (end of yr 12 exam in Australia) and got great jobs, you have so much ahead of you, make something of yourself,
you can do this !!!

Bimmer l
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Bimmer l

you r doing fine, still making a living. The world is one messy place, don’t give up. Try earning more by being positive about yourself,you seem to be a nice guy. I know of someone who is 60 n had no income for 8 years, suffering from depression n few broken relationships but is going to fight for a better life. , 48 is still young…you have 30 years ahead of you.

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luvrats

First of all, you need to get a physical. There are some illnesses, such as hypothyroidism, that can make you feel very lazy. They can be treated. If you are OK physically, then I guess you just have to find a way to MAKE yourself improve your life. One of the ways that I stay happy is that I try to always have something to look forward too. Lunch with a friend, a movie I want to see, going to a party — whatever. Try to plan something at least once a week that you will look forward too. Also,… Read more »

ψ ʃosh Aℓfred Φ
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ψ ʃosh Aℓfred Φ

You can either give up on your self or put more focus into it?

Which one do you really want to do?

Than what are you waiting for.

Zen meditation isn’t going to help you get where you need to go.

what's wrong with my face?
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what's wrong with my face?

Great.
You think you can learn programming by meditating? Here’s a thought. How about making some RIGHT effort. Wrong effort won’t help you in the slightest degree.

oh, it’s too HARD to study. Can’t I just sit on my @ss looking at my belly button?

Corinna
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Corinna

Hey you, if you think, that you are lazy and you can not change it, maybe you should think about seeing a doc, but then of course, making 9 bucks an hour, how? Giving up and trying zen meditation….What? All that in almost one sentence? You can not just sit down and say:”oh, hey, everything is going wrong, let me just meditate here for a sec.” Get up in the morning, tell yourself, that you are not lazy and that you can do what you want to do. But then, on the other hand if you are lazy, that might… Read more »

Master Bates
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Master Bates

have you seeked professional help? you might be suffering from adult adhd. look into it.

Joel A
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Joel A

how can you give up hope, you have no options, just stay on this steady path and think of an alternative