My grandfather died 3 years ago of cancer in my home. I now sleep in the room where he died, my bed in the same place his bed was when he died. Untill recently I have never had any problems staying in the room, but about two months ago I began to get awakened to someone pushing on my leg. I hear whispering off and on, but sometimes not for days. Today I was in the shower and my shampoo bottle jumped off of the shelf and slammed into my head. What is going on? should I get someone spiritual to deal with a spirit? is this even a spirit? I get bad headaches when I begin to hear the whispers and feel like i’m going to vomit when I wake up from something touching my legs. what in the hell is going on?